It can feel like you got hit by a truck when you suddenly discover that the guy you were interested in is no longer interested in you. It’s that kind of blow to the ego and the heart when your boyfriend/fling/hook-up/FWB loses interest in you and leaves you holding the bag. Everything seemed so fine before! You guys were on the same page about everything! There were no signs that his attention had turned to someone else!
Or were there?
Maybe you missed – or misread – the multitude of signs he gave you when your relationship was beginning to fall. Perhaps you were so wrapped up in yourself that you failed to notice all the things he did the moment someone else caught his eye. No one likes to feel as if they’d been played for a fool, which is why we’re here to help you out – and prevents you from getting blindsided next time. A man may think he’s being sneaky when he’s got one woman on the line while he reels in another, but we’ve seen through them and know exactly what they do when they’re interested in someone else. If your dude has done most of these 21 things then, sorry, but you’ve already lost him.
He Stops Texting/Calling
When a guy is into us, he’s not afraid to initiate calling or texting first, because he doesn’t want you to get away! If you’re already involved and have a pretty healthy relationship when it comes to technology, it can be a red flag when his texts and calls suddenly drop off.
His attention has already drifted to someone else if he goes radio silent and you find yourself always having to be the initiator, it could be that he’s emotionally removing himself from your relationship because talking and texting with someone else seems way more appealing. Being busy is one thing, but a pattern of gradual disinterest and one-word responses makes things pretty obvious. Clearly, you’re slipping down his list of priorities – and someone else may have taken your place!